Helping You Create Your Best At Home, At Work, and in Life


Create Space for Pause

It's important to have goals to aim our creative energy. If we don't plan and take steps towards our goal, we won't get there. On the other hand, when we use a planner or approach each day with a To-Do List, we can chase after the details towards the goals and lose sight of why and how we're doing what we do; or we can get caught up in the steps and obstacles along the way and get thrown off track. So it's also important to create space to stop, to pause, to reflect. Reflecting helps us create and define worthwhile goals, and also to remember and stay focused on our largest goals. Reflect often to keep your priorities in perspective and better use your creativity.  


Reach Out To Others

One of the most important things we can create is healthy relationships. Knowing who we can rely on and who will not let us down in a time of need, who will hear us when we need an ear, helps us to feel connected and remain calm, even during times of challenge and crisis. While the pandemic spreads and fires rage, while policies of fear and hatred abound, sometimes it's hard to remember that the most valuable thing is our lives together. None of us is alone, and we remember every time we stick together and reach out to others. 


Create Your Life Day By Day

Life is our greatest gift. When we stop to smell the flowers, to enjoy what's before us, 
to create this day as best we can moment by moment, we honor and celebrate life. The white lily symbolizes rebirth and rejuvenation of the soul, and can be a reminder that each day, as we become aware of our first waking breath, it's like we're given a new beginning. We can approach the day habitually and with drudgery, or we can bring new zest, a positive attitude, and focused energy. Notice and pause as needed throughout the day to bring your awareness back to the moment and to stay present in all you do. We create our lives day by day, so see how you can create this day, choosing to live life as a celebration, regardless of circumstances around you. 


Create True to You

Whether inventing, cooking, healing, making art, constructing, dancing, designing a wardrobe, or creating in any way, we always start with what's before us. We can learn from and imitate the masters, and we can copy and "steal like an artist," expanding on what already exists. Because so much of creativity comes from seeing and spring-boarding from what others have done, it's important to stay centered in who you are, enjoy the process of creating, and stay authentic and true to your message or intention for creating. We are all creative, and we are all unique. Be the beautiful star you are, and grow and create from there. 


Make Lemonade from Lemons

In this year of 2020 with August over, summer ending, coronavirus carrying on, political division, social unrest, and more... it can feel overwhelming, and easy to become pessimistic or feel like things are getting worse. Where there's problems– there's lots of opportunity to discover and apply creative solutions all around. We can hole up and shut down and feel anxious or defeated, or we can remember the adage to turn lemons into lemonade. None of us can recreate and solve everything, but each of us can find what refreshes and energizes us, and work on creating our best, according to our passions, strengths and resources. Extra time staying home? What can you create from there? Together we can share and enjoy the fruits of our efforts. Carry on, and squeeze out your best, seizing this day! 


Take a Break

Knowing when to take a break is important. When you're feeling anxious or creating feels stuck or forced, take time off to renew and enjoy some sweet moments. Refreshed, you'll come back
 feeling relaxed and inspired, and you can move towards creating effortlessly again. How many sweet moments can you enjoy today?


See the Big Picture

Remember to keep the goal in sight when you're creating: Usually that means the expectation of a new skill or product of some sort, whether it's in a similar style to what you normally make or something completely new. While beginning, it helps to look wide, them make sweeping decisions, eliminating materials and methods and choosing the ones that will most likely optimize your outcome. 

For instance, if you want to expand on how you paint, rather than sticking to emulating one master, you can dabble with tutorials in a variety of styles. Trying lots of ways increases the skills in your toolbox, and from there, in time, your own style will eventually emerge as you mix and combine your favorite techniques with your own hand. The same goes for writing, playing music, making new products, or any other creative endeavor. 

It's so easy to get lost in the little details when creating. Starting broadly helps keep the possibilities wide, then reducing the less favorable variables helps you get toward your goal. Keep your eye on the big picture, and carry on. 


Dig Up Creative Inspiration

Do you ever see what others are creating and wonder how they got their idea or wish you'd thought of that? Or do you ever get stuck in a dry spell where the ideas stop flowing? 

One way to stimulate creativity is to go "treasure hunting." This can be done almost anywhere, from a store to the shore. The idea is to have an intention of what you need a creative solution for, and then to look around deeply, preferably in new places, and make lists, take photos, or gather things that are odd, beautiful, have something novel about them, or that inspire or call you in some way. These ideas can then be examined to see if new associations can be made between them. Children do this naturally while playing, using what's around them and repurposing and combining things as needed. For instance, kids often turn rocks, pinecones, seashells, feathers, and other natural found objects into everything from game pieces to fairy lands. Or they search through their Grandma's cedar chest and desk drawers to discover cool, forgotten objects that they suddenly can find a new use for. 

Those of us who have grown up may need to work a little harder to come into the mindset of looking for treasures and recombining or expanding on them to get new ideas, products, or solutions. Try going on a treasure hunt today to get new ideas towards a problem you're looking to solve. 


Create Joy

Scientists have proven that happiness is contagious. And happy people have stronger immune systems and stay healthier. Even during difficult times, thinking kind, happy thoughts on purpose help create happiness, because body, mind, and emotions are always connected. 

Sometimes a smile is all that's needed to bring a little joy to others, too. Enjoy creating from a happy heart today, and see where you can spread a little happiness. Not sure what to create? Just start with a smile, and see what follows. 


Take Care of Your Creative Babies

Our creative endeavors are like our babies, we need to focus on them and keep them safe from harm till they're ready to be on their own in the world. Once they're out there, some will travel wide, others will stay closer to home. Regardless of how far what you create may spread, at least by birthing and protecting your most precious projects, they get their chance in the world. If your creative spark hatches into something that makes one person's life better, then your time has been spent well. If it brings you joy while making it, it's been worthwhile. What we create matters, enjoy the process and protect what's precious. 


Create Trust

Who or what do you trust? And how can we create trust in a world filled with uncertainty, especially when we've all experienced various levels of individual and collective trauma and there are so many points of view?

Without trust, fear blocks our hearts and minds and we become reactive. So it's important to surrender our fear and feel like maybe things will work out. Even during a pandemic. Even when our world views may be expanding or challenged. Even when the world feels like it's turned upside down. 

We can trust that some people are trustworthy enough that we can rely on them. Maybe science, and love, and nature, and intelligence and collective healing will help bring a new balance to our world. Maybe our inspired ideas will come together as solutions if we stick with them, with care and trust. Let's co-create it well. 


Create Resiliency

Do you stay inflated and bounce when things go wrong, or do you deflate and get stopped? When we get down on ourselves, we project failure and doubt and it's hard to create anything from a "can't do" mindset. When we keep a growth mindset, instead we say "I can't do this... yet," or "I'll do better next time," and we keep at it. 

Resiliency, like everything else, grows stronger from practice. We can let mistakes, failures, and wrong turns keep us down, or we can bounce back and try again. The more things we try, the more we learn how much we can begin again, if not on this project, maybe on something better. 

If at first your creative efforts don't work out or feel a little bumpy, you can bounce back. It might not take you in the same direction as before. Who knows, it might even be better. 


The Secret Ingredient in Creativity

Love: The secret ingredient to everything, the magic juice, the highest energy, and what it's all about. 

Love yourself. 

Love who you're with. 

Love your family, your friends, your coworkers, and even the difficult people in your life. 

Love what you do. 

As much as is possible, do what you love. 

And if you're not loving what you're doing, see what you can change, either from a step in a new direction, or from a more loving place within yourself. Add a little love to whatever you're doing right now, and you might not just create a better day, you may also improve your choices, relationships, work, art, and life... 

See how much you can create today with love in your heart, and with heart and head connected. 

Love that you're you, love that you're creating. 

Creating from the heart, you just might touch other's hearts with what you create. And maybe you'll even love what you create. Love creating today. 


Create Nurturing

Raising others means creating a nurturing environment that fosters growth, health, well-being, and learning. It's continually lifting them, from where they are to somewhere higher. It's helping them become their best, most competent, confident, and whole person, who grows to contribute and to nourish themselves and others. 

Whenever we make healthy choices and feed and lift ourselves in positive ways, it sets an example to help raise our children and those around us. Choosing to consume wisely, prioritizing what's most important like health and relationships, always being curious and present, speaking in ways you like to be spoken to, being kind and compassionate, practicing patience and discipline, these are more ways of lifting yourself and those who watch you. 

How do you create nourishment for yourself and others? 


Create Positive Change

All of nature is diverse. How boring life would be if we were all exactly alike, with equal capabilities, looking and doing the same as everyone else. Despite outer appearances, we're all much more the same than different, with similar physical and emotional needs, and deserving fair, humane treatment while we pursue creating our happiest lives for the short time we're here. 

How do we create a more just society, where all people have equal access to the basic necessities of life, where laws and enforcement are fair and applied equally to everyone, and where marginalized people get the help they need? Creating positive societal change begins with each of us. We can look deeply within and find the places where we fear or ignore "other," where we don't understand or support one another, and where we numb from difficult emotions and situations. Understanding our own strengths and weaknesses, unique experiences, and points of view informs how we think, speak, and act. We can all ask, "How can I stand up for and contribute to creating a fair and just society?" We can celebrate our diversity and use our creativity to help lift, heal, and unite people.

How do you best use your talents and uniqueness to create positive change?  


Create Nourishment

As I checked on my little vegetable garden today, it felt good knowing I'm growing healthy food to feed myself and my husband. (He might argue he's growing it for me... whatever). 

And I started thinking on nourishment and what it means. It's more than just food and clean water. Once we have our basic physical needs met, we need to feed our minds and hearts as well. When we do, we can nurture our best selves, feeding our imaginations, learning, feeling authentic and whole, engaged and in sync. We nourish ourselves whenever we practice healthy habits, consuming wholesome media, questioning deeply, understanding one another's points of view, immersing in nature, seeing beauty around us, and staying positive. And of course, creating and making art. 

Feeding ourselves also means having the means to feed ourselves. Choosing to work, even if it's not an ideal job or nourishing in itself, allows us to earn, to have choices, and to meet our physical needs. Supporting ourselves, we can continue moving towards nurturing and aligning our entire being. 

One person's nourishment might not work as well for another, but we can each create and follow what feeds us today, what serves us for the future, what lifts us up, and what helps us create healthy bodies, minds, and spirits. I hope you have a nourishing day, whatever that looks like for you!


Create Unplugged Time

Summer's almost officially here, and it's a great time to get outdoors, look up and see the sky in the day, and gaze at the stars at night. When I think of childhood summers, I recall spending almost every day outdoors all day long, playing, biking, swimming, and sitting on the beach reading or chatting with friends for hours.  

Speaking of chatting, I recently spoke on the phone to a 40-ish year old dear person, and at the end of the conversation, said, "It's been great chatting and catching up." She laughed, and said "We didn't chat," and corrected me, saying that chatting is done with our fingers and a keyboard on a device. Well, hmmm. Where on earth did the word chat come from? It used to mean talking to one another, and was invented long before computers! As I confirm with Google, I find it's origin is Middle English, from the 1550's, and is a shortening of chatter, or to "converse familiarly."

Yes, I'm on the computer right now, again. It's a great creative space, and everything's at our finger tips, even chatting. So many things we can do plugged in, and so many things we avoid doing while plugged in, like giving full presence to whatever or whoever is around us. I spend a little too much time here these days, and so will experiment with less is more. I'm off to paint en plein air, and going to try giving myself designated device time for awhile to see what I can create with the time I free up. 

What might you create with less time on devices? Maybe give unplugging a whirl, and see what you can use the saved time for. 


Snuggle to Boost Calm and Immunity

Us human beings have many innate needs. Not only do we need to be together, but it can be very healing to be touched and hugged. If you're fortunate to live with others or pets, spend time daily hugging, holding, and helping one another to feel supported and well. Simply holding hands, or giving a little back or foot rub also helps. It's good for you and for them.

Why? Beneath our skin is our fascia, a gel-like connective tissue that’s the largest organ in our body. The skin and fascia contain many nerve endings, so when we’re held or massaged it’s very calming to our nervous systems. Squeezes and massage can also help to keep our lymph moving, important for creating and maintaining a strong immune system.

No people or pets around? No worries, you can hug yourself, roll on foam rollers or do self-massage to work the fascia, relax the nervous system, and keep your lymphatic system healthy. 

As you create today, remember to create and practice habits and support for a healthy you. Be well!


Create Inner Stillness

Sometimes after a creative flurry it's time to reconnect within, get still, and wait for inspiration for what's next. That' what I'm doing today. Creating inner stillness is always a good start to the day, and the best place to create from. Maybe try pausing and touch base often within yourself, too, while you create this day. 


Mix It Up

If you've found your unique creative way and it's working for you and you're enjoying it, yay, you, keep going! Yet, if we lock ourselves in to just one approach, technique, or way, we may get in a rut, doing the same thing over and over, and possibly distancing ourselves from a further Eureka! or masterpiece. 

I've been most comfortable sketching in ink then watercoloring, it's my go to method when capturing an idea. Recently, what with extra time while socially distancing, I took out all my art supplies (and I'm a bit of a hoarder in this department; I've had some of these materials for decades, mostly unused; and even included a set of Neocolor II crayons that I was given as a child when I was in solitary recovering from scarlet fever). I found an untitled painting by Ozz Franca and decided to try recreating it, or something slightly like it, with every art material I own. I started a new sketchbook, aiming to just play and experiment and mix up materials and styles for awhile. No pencil outlines first, just went for it on each page. You can see some of the results here

The verdict? I still love watercolors, but suddenly I'm also enamored with a variety of chalks, pencils, markers, inks, even ballpoint pens. I discovered I can make reasonably decent pictures even with crayons, love so many art materials, and really enjoyed mixing them up. I'm not sure how this will play out in my art and illustration, but I now have a sketchbook filled with a variety of techniques that I can browse for ideas when illustrating a new project. The learnings have given me confidence in my abilities as an artist, and have propelled me to want to create more.

Off I go to do that, and next time you get a chance, try mixing up your creative approach and materials. Try new things, let stuff come together in new ways to open your creativity. Don't try to make it perfect, just play, mix, mingle, and see what you get. 


Use Less and Save More

In times when many of us, including me, have lost our paying gigs, and there's uncertainty as to what will happen next, is anyone else out there noticing how quickly you use the resources you need for daily life, whether it's food, or supplies, or spending, or other? And as we hear good news on how nature is healing a little while we're staying home, does it make you wonder about your personal environmental footprint? 

When we think of conserving, big things matter most. Stopping deforestation and planting trees is the number one thing to help reduce climate change and clean up the environment for the future, so it's important we vote for good leaders who support the Paris Agreement and other green initiatives. Not wasting water, turning off unused lights and devices, turning down the heat at night, using low energy LED lightbulbs, and buying only what we need are things most of us can do. But also we can conserve health, practicing prevention to stay well. And we can conserve wealth, time, and energy by some of the choices we make. 

We can all probably do a little better at conserving, not letting things go to waste and protecting against future shortage or harm, and using our energy to create our best live. Native cultures around the world were keenly aware of the need to preserve nature so it could support them, often making decisions by contemplating "How will this affect the 7th generation?" We can all question the impact of our choices with an eye on the future, and look for ways to reuse, recycle, repurpose and reduce to consciously conserve. 

With extra time home and socially distancing, it's become clear that what matters most to me is relationships and the people I love; and having a sustainable, free world for my grandchildren and theirs to live as stress-free as possible. While in time-out socially distancing, I'm questioning how I can most efficiently use my money, talents, resources, and life energy and be prepared for what the future may bring. As I journey from room to room and see my unfinished piles and projects, I keep questioning, what's most important and worthwhile for me to finish now and going forward? That's where I plan to focus and consciously use and conserve my creative energy.

As you create today, how might you use less to have more for the future? How can you carve out your space and time to create something that, even though temporary, may positively impact your life and others'?


Make Magic

How do you make magic?

I'm in the process of making a little. For about 40 years, on again off again and mostly off, I've been trying/thinking/talking/stalling about making a children's picture book. Often I'd get an idea, begin with great heart, and then allow my saboteur to interfere, overthinking, over-editing, or listening to others' critiques over my own intuition. At the beginning of April, I had an idea and with great focus and passion I began. Within days, I presented it to my critique group, and felt mostly discouraged. I listened only to the useful parts of the feedback, and carried on, managing to prepare the manuscript and all the artwork in about 2 weeks. Yay me, I've finished my first kids' picture book! 

Because of the timely nature of the topic, I decided to bypass trying to find an agent, editor, and publisher and decided to indie publish, with help from a friend. For various reasons it's bounced back 3 times in the last couple of weeks for improper formatting. After watching some YouTube videos and much Google searching, I have fingers and toes crossed that today's submission will fly and hopefully I can share it soon. Till then, here's the cover reveal

I've had so many learnings from the process, and we'll see what happens next. My biggest advice if you're creating today: Decide what you're making and for who, why, and how, then, if it feels worthwhile and calls you, don't second guess, keep moving forward, focus, and do it. In this case, once I had the manuscript, I eliminated variables and decided what art materials I would use and how it would look. Then I stopped thinking/deciding except to sort out obstacles as they come up. What started as sketches almost effortlessly became a 32 page picture book in 2 weeks by sticking to one phase at a time, keeping my head and heart in sync on it, and not turning back. 

It might take years to create something, or weeks, or moments, depending on where you are and how you count. Just paint, or draw, or invent, or make, doing this step, and the next with great focus and enjoying the process. In time your practicing and exploring and intention will come together and you will create something magical. 


Empower Your Thinking

Our thoughts create a good part of our experience. When we have positive, uplifting, optimistic thoughts we enjoy our journey much better than when we're thinking judgmentally, negatively, or anxiously. 

Scientists tell us that the average person has 70,000-90,000 thoughts per day. We only notice about 5% of these; and 95% of our thoughts are the same as we had yesterday. What if we could think some new thoughts to help us grow beyond where we are?

When we pause and notice our thoughts, just getting still and mindful to whatever is happening right now, we become more aware of how we think, and we can start to see our patterns. At first when we begin this sort of mindfulness practice, it can be uncomfortable, as we may feel the connection between our thoughts and emotions, and might not like what we observe. With practice, we can consciously change our habits and think in ways more conducive to creating contentment and well-being in our lives.

Here's to some happy, peaceful thoughts for you today. Maybe take a few mindfulness breaks and just watch your thoughts. If you find any that are causing anxiety, anger, sadness, or fear, try thinking a grateful or happy thought about yourself or someone else, on purpose, and feel how that lifts your energy. If you find thoughts of self-doubt, shift your self-talk to "I can;" or, if you can't yet, rather than thinking "I can't," shift your mindset to "I can't yet" and then take steps towards learning what's needed so you can. This way you'll empower your thinking, you'll probably create more peace within and around yourself, and you just might gain confidence and enjoyment in all you create. 


Watch Nature Unfold

All of nature is about change, growth, and transformation. 

Spring is a great time to step outside and watch the changes unfolding around us. 
It's a time for hope; for wonder; for soaking in the beauty; for feeling grateful for the gifts nature offers us; for planting and patience; and for feeling connected to Earth, to all its life forms, and to all people around the planet. It's a reminder to take care of our home, Earth, because she takes care of us.

We are part of nature, and so we too change, grow, and transform. We come, we live, and we go. Connecting deeply to nature helps us feel our beauty and strength as well as our vulnerability. It helps us to feel, contemplate, and embrace life's mysteries. 

You can let nature offer her gentle healing to help you stay well, strong and hopeful. Maybe try sitting with a tree or examining some flowers today, or turn over a rock and watch some insects. Or just sit and breathe in some fresh air. Immerse yourself in nature's creativity, and let her inspire yours. 


Be Light

We rely on creativity to meet the challenges of each day and in all our roles and relationships. It's creativity that helps us live purposeful, meaningful, beautiful lives. Our daily hustle can push away our creative impulse, and when we're stressed, we can feel down and disconnected from our creative intuition, or muse, or soul, or highest Self.

During a time of crisis, it’s easy to get stuck in negative, fearful, and even fight/flight patterns. Yet, it’s also a time to rise and use your talents and strengths in ways you may not have imagined you could. By believing in possibilities and inviting in space for what’s next, we can feel more calm and optimistic, and this is fertile ground for our imaginations to sprout and grow our creative seeds.

When pessimism, anxiety, doubt, or fear keep you from creating, you can try practicing yoga, meditation, breathing, singing, dancing, drumming, or anything that calms your revved up nervous system. Making breathing space in our minds, hearts and bodies, we can then better shift from dark and stuck places to feeling lighter and more spacious. Suddenly, the muse may reappear and ideas and solutions to our problems often spontaneously pop in. 

Look how furloughed workers are turning their energy to making face-masks from everything from old bandanas to bras; companies are switching gears to make much needed medical equipment; nurses are suggesting ways to hook two patients to breathing machines designed for one; doctors and scientists are exploring new virus remedies and vaccines; yoga teachers and spiritual leaders are finding ways to lift and support their communities remotely; children are learning from home and teachers are using technology to reach them; artists of all genres are sharing what they can; delivery services are finding ways to get us what we need; neighbors are supporting and connecting using social distancing; moms are throwing virtual birthday parties… and the list goes on.

So stay hopeful and look from and on the bright side. Remember to make space for your light to shine in so you can create from your best and lightest place. Create and be light today. 


Feed Your Creative Journey

A big part of creating is exploring. Whether it's in the form of brainstorming, researching, experimenting, or studying other creatives' products, when we explore we fertilize our imaginations and enhance our techniques and creative abilities. 

Creative exploring is sort of like hunting. It takes patience, observation, and may take us down many trails. What comes along may be what we're hoping for or may be a surprise. If we stay open to what arises, we might find and hit our target, or we might capture something else that feeds our creative journey. 

When you look deeply, examine what you're doing, and dare to explore new ways, you can discover new things about the world, yourself, your capabilities, and your art. Set out today with a spirit of adventure, do something different, take some chances, reach beyond your routine, and see if you can enjoy expanding and surprising yourself. 


How Now Brown Cow?

My grandfather, "Pep," used to ask "How now, brown cow?" every time we spoke on the phone. At the time, it seemed a quirky, silly thing that made us laugh. Now Wikipedia informs, "The use of the phrase "How now brown cow" in teaching elocution can be dated back to at least 1926." Interestingly, it's also currently the title of several children's books. And it's a good question. 

We spend time obsessing on the past, and we worry about the future; yet, all we ever really have is right now, this moment, then the next. When we mindfully focus on what's before us, we can answer "How now?" We know how we're feeling, what we're thinking, and why we're doing what we're doing. 

Presence– being right where you are, however you're feeling, aware and focused on who and what are before you now, in this moment, and then again in each next moment– is difficult in a world that feels designed for distraction and encourages us to multitask. Neuroscientists have proven that when we try to do multiple things simultaneously or cogitate on the past or future, we do more poorly at simple tasks, we focus less, have difficulty learning, and we accomplish less. When we single-mindedly focus in the present, we can mindfully pay attention in each moment, on purpose, without judging what's happening. 

When we create our day and tasks with presence, fully immersed, we forget time and may not even look at the clock. When pressed with a list of goals and deadlines, it helps to pause and breathe and refocus when getting distracted. Then you can get back to doing one thing at a time, with full attention. 

The past is gone and the future is largely a result of the choices we make moment to moment on our path. As you set about creating your day today, try setting your clock to "NOW," and move intentionally, immersing fully in this Now and the next. 



As mentioned in my recent post, at heart I'm a minimalist, and love the idea of freeing my life by simplifying and letting go of what's not needed. Not an easy task for someone as un-simple as me. 

This spring, with more time on my hands (what with cancelled yoga and mindfulness classes and no trips to visit my grandchildren while staying home during COVID19), I'm capturing what I can of the beauty around me as I watch how nature comes and goes. It gives pause to consider that all of us, regardless of privilege or social standing, are born and will die. Life is what happens between. And when we stop to see how vulnerable and beautiful it all is, we feel connected deeply to the earth, the sun, and each other and hope it will last. But of course, it won't– the nature of nature is to grow and change and become and let go. 

All living beings in nature except us humans (and our furry domesticated friends) live simply, building natural shelters, without a need for special bric-a-brac or knick knacks for their nests and caves, and wearing their native skins. Sure, some are gatherers and stash nuts, and others are hibernators to preserve their energy during the winter; but all plants and many animals often just eat as they come to their food. And so must many people who are underprivileged, or homeless, or sick, or unemployed. 

When we simplify, we can make space in our homes and free our hearts and minds to focus on what matters. We can simplify by giving things away, and also by watching our thoughts and feelings and letting go of worry and fear- fear of losing our loved ones; fear of not having enough; fear of being without; fear of not keeping up with others; fear of not being good enough; or even the fear of feeling our anger, sadness, discomfort, and fear. With less cluttered homes and clear hearts and minds, we can use our resources, time, and energy to do what's most important. We can focus on being healthy, active, creative. We can be kind, helpful, connected, open. Knowing there's enough for all and sharing, we can better enjoy our short stay here by being fully alive, with courage no matter what we may be facing. 

As Janis Joplin so perfectly sang, "freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" (Me and Bobby McGee, written by Kris Kristofferson). What if we could all free ourselves from fear itself? What could you lose today that may free you from anxiety, and what might you gain? You can start by noticing and letting go of anxious thoughts, and simply enjoy being alive now, being you, being satisfied wherever you are, and giving a hand up to others as you can.


Use What You Stash

Any one else out there a bit of a hoarder of anything? 

At heart I'm a minimalist, though very aware that I have more than I need. Can a person have too many books? (I don't know everything yet). Journals? (so many thoughts and sketches to jot down!). Art materials? (always fun to try new stuff, and imagine the possibilities!). Shoes? (my tootsies must be barefoot comfy; and I prefer bare feet, so I've yet to find the perfect pair). Well, ok, those are my areas where I 'stash my nuts' so to speak. I have no problem clearing out my clothing and kitchen; I don't gather makeup or cleaning products; I could easily simplify my husband's office, closets, and garage; and could also easily clean out my friends and family's overflow areas- though I might take home a few books, art materials, or journals if I found them. And useful things- I just emptied my mom's house, and brought home good furniture I don't need (will be giving it away) and cleaning materials (why let them go into a landfill unused?), toilet paper (good idea huh?), and only a few of her 'cherished' pieces that she collected over the years. 

Speaking of toilet paper: I'll admit, I have enough for several months, even before bringing home mom's. Note: I always have enough for several months. Years ago, when I couldn't afford gold, I thought if the bottom dropped out of our economy, gold may not be that helpful anyway- you can't eat it or wipe your butt with it. So, I decided to invest in toilet paper, just in case. Not gobs, but, a few cases to just stay ahead, with a little more than enough for now. 

Some say if you haven't used it in a year, you should give it away or throw it out. But, you never know. I recently took out a set of Neocolor II water soluble artist crayons that I was given as a 10-year-old while sick in bed with Scarlet Fever. I tried them a few times over the years, and wasn't sure what to do with them, but felt they were a special gift, so always stuck them back in my desk drawer. The other day I took them out and LOVED the result I got. Yes, these crayons sat for 50 years, mostly unused, and now, having improved my art skills, they're one of my new favorites.

As I sit in my newly dubbed 'artist residency' (social distancing for Covid19), I'm happy to have my supplies. There's no harm in gathering stuff, as long as it brings joy and utility and doesn't prevent others from having it or pose other hazards. Now that I've stashed enough for a rainy day (or months of virus isolation, as the case may be) I'm settling in to see what I can create from it. And slowly I'll see what I can let go of.

My inspiration for creativity today, then, is determine what you value, then stash wisely– maybe enough and a little bit more is the right amount. If you have something you've been saving, take it out, dust it off, and fool around with it. Play, experiment, and use what you have to create in a new way. And if you find stuff you're hanging on to and don't need, consider letting it go to someone who'll be delighted to have it. 


Keep Moving

Sometimes we zip along, other times not. Do you ever feel like you're crawling along and not getting much of anywhere? Maybe your creative endeavors have stalled to a near stand still? And where are you going, anyway? 

Exercise is movement to engage in life. We flex and extend our approximately 640 skeletal muscles to move our bodies so we can do what we want and to take us wherever we go. (We also have involuntary smooth and cardiac muscles). Our Western culture teaches a vigorous, fast forward, "no pain/no gain" type of movement ethic, whether in the gym, the office, at home, learning, and wherever. Eastern cultures promote exercise more conducive to living a long, healthy life, with emphasis on syncing breath and movement, and in ways to bring ease instead of pain. 

As long as we're moving directionally and intentionally, we continue to stay engaged in life and can grow creatively. When things are moving slowly, trying to force or speed them often backfires. Sometimes you need to pause and clarify goals, then you can keep moving along and creating as you can. Even if it feels at times like slow motion, remember incremental movement adds up, and that's what will take you places. Move along now, and exercise to engage in life and to create your heart's desire.  


Be Well and Hang On

I've several pre-scheduled Tuesday posts, so today I'm writing an extra post to reflect what's currently happening. COVID19 is a game changer leading to great uncertainty, insecurity, fear, and disruption, as well as pain and suffering for many. It's easy to fall into despair feeling powerless. And it's true, there's a lot of this that's just unknown and out of our control Here are a few things you can do to help create some peace, strength, and resiliency within this chaos: 

1. Wash your hands often, with soap or antibacterial soap and hot water, especially each time you're in contact with people, stores, or packages. 

2. Practice social distancing to help slow the spread of this virus, and stay connected to family, friends, and neighbors by touching base often.

3. As much as it's available to you, eat nourishing foods and take your vitamins. Maybe plant a victory garden to share veggies and herbs with your family and neighbors this summer. Drink plenty of water and minimize things that weaken us, such as alcohol and smoking. 

4. Get some outdoor time, and immerse yourself in nature if possible, preferably in the morning each day.  Sit on the ground, hug trees, connect with the sun and the earth. This will boost your mood, your vitamin D levels, and optimize your melatonin to promote better sleep. 

5. Exercise and move your body. Do yoga, take walks, bike, run, or anything else you enjoy. Try some online classes to learn new ways to move and stay strong, flexible, and balanced.  

6. Take several breathing breaks during the day. You can just sit, watch your breath, feel and accept what you feel, and allow yourself to get still till towards finding your inner calm. Acknowledging our anger, sorrow, and fear can help us get through these difficult emotions.

7. Create and lift yourself. Take out those markers, crayons, yarn, fabric, wood, clay, or whatever media you have around. Make art or craft or catch up on cleaning and making your environment as beautiful as possible. Or, take out that musical instrument and let it sing. Sing out loud, play, pray, meditate, dance, nourish yourself with uplifting writings, and anything else that can bring you joy in this moment. Just create, and enjoy feeling the power of what you can make now.

8. Notice your thoughts. Acknowledge that COVID19 information can trigger us to a fight/flight/freeze nervous system response: If we live in this ramped up mode, we will create more anxiety in ourselves and those around us. As often as possible, shift negative, fearful thinking to purposely thinking happy, kind, grateful, and healing thoughts. 

9. If you're fortunate to live with other people or furry enlightened beings of one breed or another, take time to hug, talk, and be together, giving strength, hope, and support to each other. 

10. Stay tuned to the daily news, and watch more than one station to get a more complete view of what's happening. Limit the amount of time you spend on this to get a break from the anxiety it may produce.

11. Turn off all devices at least 2 hrs before bed, and get a great night's sleep.

12. Help as you can. Share your art, your talent, your time, your resources, and use your privilege and strengths to help the best you can.

Please hang in there, you are not alone. All of us around the world are in this together, and we'll all be touched by it in some way. Rather than moving in fear, we can connect and embrace our vulnerability and rise up to our highest humanity. Wishing lots of health, strength and peace to you and your loved ones.


Cross the Threshold

My brother-in-law is suffering with ALS, which is slowly damaging his nerves and taking away his abilities. A talker and storyteller who loved to share advice, he's only now able to communicate with great difficulty. When I visited recently, he had his computer out so I could read what he was writing: "A goal without a plan is just a dream;" his point, that without a plan, we're not going to arrive at our goals or succeed in life.

Once we decide what our creative focus is, we may have a specific plan and process to implement it. We can set the goal, plan, make the time, begin, and then enjoy seeing our creation unfold, just like Joe always encouraged.

The creative process can't always be planned out. Sometimes we might not have a clue as to whether our concept is even feasible. In this case, we need to dream first, with a loose exploratory idea of how or if we can proceed. We make our goal, imagine, take an experimental step, let that inform us, then take another step. We can enjoy the process, with each little step like a new threshold we cross, guiding us to our next. This way we make little plans, and in time they just might bring us to our goal.

So take your best step forward, enjoy your creative journey, and let each step guide your plan.


Aim Your Direction

Some creatives are specialists, focusing their life's energy in one area, and some are generalists, creating in various areas. To be creative, we need to finish; and to finish, we need to decide what we want to make, then focus, till we're done.

The Oxford online dictionary informs that focus is "the center of interest or activity," "the act of concentrating interest or activity on something," and "the state or quality of having or producing clear visual definition." In yoga we learn to gaze our eyes in particular directions (drishti) when in different postures to help develop concentration and focus consciousnessAnd in neuroscience, we learn that the eyes are very connected to our vagus nerve, and can help us to heal from stress and PTSD, for instance, with methods such as EMDR or Brainspotting. Our gaze connects us to our nervous systems, to balancing, and also leads us to our target, such as in archery.

My neighbor is a piano teacher and concert pianist. It's what she does. She focuses on this, her one big thing. She practices daily, and knows what and why she's practicing. She creates music and pianists, and she's really good at it and loves it.

My biochemistry professor at Boston College spent his entire career exploring and understanding one enzyme, aspartate transcarbamylase, which is responsible for an early step in the production of pyrimidine rings that are used to build nucleotides in DNA and RNA. Through creative questioning, experiments, and learnings, he helped to advance understanding of this critical pathway for the medical community. Some of us might be bored working in such a single-pointed area for life, but Dr. K. was always enthusiastic and focused, knowing his goal and plugging on.

I'm a generalist with many interests ranging from science, health, and yoga to inventing, writing, painting and music. I've spread my creative energies in many directions, and the learnings from each area cross-fertilize one another. When too many creative projects are in progress, I lose focus and some get let go. What I keep focus on is what I progress and succeed on. The key is to decide the current point of interest, and then to keep sight on it till done.

To be more creative, choose your center of creative interest, then concentrate your gaze, interest, and activity on it and see how that goes. Enjoy your focus, and focus the most on what you enjoy and what will sustain you.


Look Around

Mindfulness is paying attention and noticing what's happening around us and inside ourselves, right now, without judging anything. And there's so much going on in and around us at every moment. Paying attention helps us to connect with people, our experiences, how we're thinking and feeling, and what we're creating.

Most of us divide our attention between self-care, family, friends, jobs, and other activities and organizations. Our digital devices, social media, gaming, TV, and other entertainment also vie for our time and focus. And we track what our competitors and others in a similar art are creating. How can we learn to notice and leverage when, where, and how we pay attention so we can enhance our creative outcomes?

Every moment is an opportunity to become more attentive. We can take several pauses in our day and just breathe and notice our feelings and thoughts. Connected to what we're thinking and feeling, we can better notice what excites and enlivens us– that's where we can best put our creative energy.

We can stop, listen, and look around often to pay attention to who and what's around us. If we focus all our awareness on what other artists or companies are doing, we might slip into a place of always trying to imitate and play catch up to them. We can look in new ways, seeing not just what our competitors are making, but also what they may be missing. Aware of what's already created lets us imagine and create growth and opportunities, for instance exploring what their idea would be like combined with an idea of ours.

Next time you're looking for ideas to advance what you're creating, notice if you're always approaching from the same angle. Then, like the giraffes, see how you can stretch your neck and look beyond your normal view. Maybe you can branch out and go somewhere new to feed your ideation. You can take a trip to the library and browse magazines that you'd never look at; or to a new museum; or to a different type of store; or to a movie you wouldn't normally choose. Or you can talk to strangers or listen to a podcast or TED talk on a topic you know nothing about. Browsing new areas helps fertilize the imagination, making new connections in our minds that can open up our innovation.

If we always look in the same direction, we may miss everything else. Pay attention, look around, and see what new comes up and how it enhances your creative practice.


Create With Abandon

Creating requires many elements to come together almost alchemically, and if we try to control our creativity with left brain analysis, we often stifle our muse, give up, or otherwise repress what I'll call the birthing of our babies– "babies" meaning whatever it is you're trying to invent or conjure up. It's tricky deciding what to keep and what to let go of during the process.

We begin with an idea, and once we latch onto it, we can explore, play with, twiddle and tweak it. Some ideas develop into a finished product, other times we need to abandon ship for awhile, let go our favorite concept or pet project and shift to something else. The most important things to let go in creating are fear, perfectionism, judgement, and resistance.

While painting the above balloon, the red balloon bled into the sky, oops. I considered a redo or some Photoshopping. And then I stopped and saw what the picture was telling me, "Let it go." Right! the perfectionist in me may never put anything into the world if I let it take over. (Maybe this blog idea is stupid. Who's going to read it anyway? What will they think? Am I wasting my time? Will I ever be good enough... Stop... Breathe... Let those thoughts go).

I'm sending this balloon off to you as is, a quick reminder to watch and notice all that holds you back from completing and sharing what you're creating. Is it self-doubt and negative self-talk that stalls you? Please let that go. Do you question and judge the worth of what you're working on, sabotaging yourself and not completing it? That's not needed either, go ahead without that. Do you compare yourself to others and think what you're doing isn't enough, or do you listen to others' criticisms over your own intuition? Please, ignore them and drive on. What about resistance and excuses? You guessed it: how about notice and release that, too. Is it close enough to call it done and share it as is? Let it go.

It's when we stop worrying that our creativity can take over. Not sure how to let things go? Visualization might help. You can close your eyes and imagine your ______ (fill in the blank with what you'd like to let go of) as a balloon of whatever color you choose. Notice how it's catching your project up, and then feel yourself opening your hand and watch that balloon of ______ float off and pop when it gets away from you.

And now you've made room to invite in a new idea, try a twist on an old one, or simply to free yourself to finish creating this one with more abandon. Here's to letting go to better create today.



I often wonder what it would be like to fly like an eagle. The take off must be such a moment of surrender and intention, flinging oneself into the air with outstretched wings, catching the wind and then off we go.

Creative take-offs can be scary and exhilarating, sort of like flying off to a new place. After the initial travel anxiety– Will I wake with my alarm? Will there be traffic to the airport? Will my flight be on time? Will I have a comfortable seat?– most of us can board, stash our stuff, and settle in, hoping for a smooth flight. Once we take off, we look forward to arriving and what's next. We might not exactly know what the next airport will be like or what the trip will bring, but we usually get to where we're going, whether the plane's early, on time, or late.

During the first stages of creating we move forward on lift and momentum, hoping to arrive at a timely and smooth landing. Propelling ourselves in a creative direction, we can ride the initial curiosity and excitement about the possibilities. Once we embark, the longer we can stay enthusiastic about our project, whatever it is, we can keep bringing our highest energy to it. Though the creative process always involves unknowns and risks, we take our best stab at getting where we aim and on time.

If you're starting something new, enjoy the take off and see where it brings you. If you're steeped in something requiring a creative twist, know that even if you're feeling like your flight's been delayed, rerouted, or hijacked, you can find a new point to take off from.

Launch yourself in a creative direction, relaunch daily, and redirect as needed. Enjoy today’s journey.